people pleaser

noun

plural people pleasers also people-pleasers
: someone or something that pleases or wants to please people
a breed of dog that's a people pleaser
This sophisticated, nutritious salad is a real people-pleaser, and it's quite filling too. Brett Stewart and Corey Irwin
often : a person who has an emotional need to please others often at the expense of his or her own needs or desires
Being a people pleaser isn't all bad. It shows that you are a caring person who values social connections and enjoys making others happy. Samantha Boardman
people-pleasing noun
or people pleasing
… if you grew up in a home with a difficult, emotionally unavailable parent, you may have unconsciously picked up the pattern of people-pleasing in an attempt to engage the aloof parent. Meghan Fritz
people-pleasing adjective
people-pleasing behavior
a people-pleasing recipe

Examples of people pleaser in a Sentence

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Stray Observations • Every time Jamie seeks reassurance, the mom or people pleaser in me wants to give it to him. Marah Eakin, Vulture, 18 Mar. 2025 Sustainable materials + a range of firmness = a solid people pleaser. Audrey Lee, Architectural Digest, 11 Mar. 2025

Word History

First Known Use

1550, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of people pleaser was in 1550

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“People pleaser.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/people%20pleaser. Accessed 30 Mar. 2025.

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