: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

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This one stinks to high heaven for sneaking anger, self-pity, and jealousy under the guise of being a pseudo-compliment. John Bowe, Contributor, CNBC, 7 Feb. 2025 For those with or without addictions, acceptance also means letting go of past self-defeating behaviors, resentments, self-pity, and regrets. Contributed Content, Twin Cities, 7 Feb. 2025 From there sprung Brian, played by Lou Taylor Pucci, an alien who looks like a new-age guru in a tracksuit, and, depending on the scene, can be naive, manipulative, aloof, romantic, cruel and even self-pitying. William Earl, Variety, 28 Jan. 2025 Their football has been blighted by individual mistakes but also characterised by a rotten mood, a noxious fog of self-pity and entitlement which has descended around them, game after game. Sebastian Stafford-Bloor, The Athletic, 21 Jan. 2025 See all Example Sentences for self-pity 

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 22 Feb. 2025.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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