the silent treatment
noun
: the act of ignoring someone because one is angry at him or her
Whenever she gets mad at me, she gives me the silent treatment.
Examples of the silent treatment in a Sentence
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In any case, giving you the silent treatment seems extreme — and will probably come back to haunt him.
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Judith Martin, Sun Sentinel, 16 May 2025
If the child or co-parent disappoints their narcissistic parent (and often these standards are impossible to meet anyway), that love will be withdrawn, often through acts like the silent treatment, guilt-tripping, or emotional distancing themselves from their partner or kids.
—wendy Wisner, Parents, 15 May 2025
This all upset Michelle, who decided to lead the class in giving Joey the silent treatment (how rude!).
—James Mercadante, EW.com, 6 May 2025
For the uninitiated, the silent treatment is when a person intentionally refuses to communicate with you — or in some cases, even acknowledge you.
—Jancee Dunn, New York Times, 4 Apr. 2025
This can show up as guilt-tripping, the silent treatment, love-bombing, gaslighting, coercion, criticizing, isolation, helplessness, and regression.
—Christina Pérez, Vogue, 12 Apr. 2025
Resorting to the silent treatment or emotionally withdrawing isn’t healthy either.
—wendy Wisner, Parents, 13 Mar. 2025
Consider the silent treatment, where someone chooses to inflict pain by withholding their words.
—Longreads, 19 Dec. 2024
So instead of drawing them closer, the silent treatment (and any accompanying eye rolls) has the opposite effect, leaving your partner confused, insecure, or worse: doubting your connection altogether.
—Jenna Ryu, SELF, 16 Oct. 2024
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Judith Martin, Sun Sentinel, 16 May 2025
If the child or co-parent disappoints their narcissistic parent (and often these standards are impossible to meet anyway), that love will be withdrawn, often through acts like the silent treatment, guilt-tripping, or emotional distancing themselves from their partner or kids.
—wendy Wisner, Parents, 15 May 2025
This all upset Michelle, who decided to lead the class in giving Joey the silent treatment (how rude!).
—James Mercadante, EW.com, 6 May 2025
For the uninitiated, the silent treatment is when a person intentionally refuses to communicate with you — or in some cases, even acknowledge you.
—Jancee Dunn, New York Times, 4 Apr. 2025
This can show up as guilt-tripping, the silent treatment, love-bombing, gaslighting, coercion, criticizing, isolation, helplessness, and regression.
—Christina Pérez, Vogue, 12 Apr. 2025
Resorting to the silent treatment or emotionally withdrawing isn’t healthy either.
—wendy Wisner, Parents, 13 Mar. 2025
Consider the silent treatment, where someone chooses to inflict pain by withholding their words.
—Longreads, 19 Dec. 2024
So instead of drawing them closer, the silent treatment (and any accompanying eye rolls) has the opposite effect, leaving your partner confused, insecure, or worse: doubting your connection altogether.
—Jenna Ryu, SELF, 16 Oct. 2024
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“The silent treatment.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/the%20silent%20treatment. Accessed 5 Jun. 2025.
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