untender

adjective

un·​tender
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1
: not tender in manner or approach : not gentle or sympathetic
an amusing companion … but fundamentally an unloving, untender woman— C. D. Lewis
so young and so untender— Shakespeare
2
archaic : not guided or influenced by religious feelings
3
: not soft or fragile : not easily hurt : tough
my throat was stiff and my jaw was not untender— Raymond Chandler
untenderly adverb
untenderness noun

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