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commiseration

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noun

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Synonym Chooser

How does the noun commiseration contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of commiseration are compassion, condolence, pity, and sympathy. While all these words mean "the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another," commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort.

murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters

In what contexts can compassion take the place of commiseration?

The words compassion and commiseration can be used in similar contexts, but compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare.

treats the homeless with great compassion

When is condolence a more appropriate choice than commiseration?

While the synonyms condolence and commiseration are close in meaning, condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss.

expressed their condolences to the widow

When is it sensible to use pity instead of commiseration?

While in some cases nearly identical to commiseration, pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress.

felt pity for the captives

When could sympathy be used to replace commiseration?

The words sympathy and commiseration are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort.

went to my best friend for sympathy
in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Example Sentences

Recent Examples of Synonyms for commiserate (with)
Verb
  • Cue more sofa wails and pitying looks at family gatherings when relatives ask you about your love life.
    Olivia Petter, Vogue, 23 Dec. 2024
  • Gi-hun and Jun-ho’s simultaneous searches have been equally unsuccessful, and the people in their lives seem to pity them.
    Jennifer Zhan, Vulture, 26 Dec. 2024
Noun
  • If your sympathy is divided, that’s because with Smith, every either/or is complicated by a both/and.
    Adam Begley, The Atlantic, 4 Feb. 2025
  • Mahler-Werfel admired Gropius’s architectural talent but had little sympathy for the hyper-objectivity of the emergent Bauhaus movement.
    Alex Ross, The New Yorker, 3 Feb. 2025
Noun
  • Take a moment to watch these other random acts of kindness captured on camera!
    Ronnie Li, USA TODAY, 10 Feb. 2025
  • The viral video left many TikTok users emotional and grateful for the couple's kindness.
    Yaakov Katz, Newsweek, 7 Feb. 2025
Noun
  • Our mission is to document truthfully, fairly and with compassion.
    The Pham, Charlotte Observer, 5 Feb. 2025
  • Maybe that is down to the latter’s hyper-inflated ecosystem, its player sales that feel laughably untethered from real life or just an unspoken exhaustion with things like compassion and not treating people like cash cows.
    Megan Feringa, The Athletic, 3 Feb. 2025
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“Commiserate (with).” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/commiserate%20%28with%29. Accessed 16 Feb. 2025.

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